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I loved this article. I just wish I could be on th...

2009-10-17T19:44:33.480-05:00

I loved this article. I just wish I could be on that same level right now. Its hard for me to find the confidence in myself to let go during sex. I constantly move my husbands hand if he starts to touch the flab on my hanging stomach. Its so gross and I know it must feel gross too. I dont think that men just like little stick figures, but at least like for things to be relatively in place. And right now, I am just one big bundle of flab. I hate getting on top, afraid its hard for him to breathe. And when we do have sex 1) its always in the dark and under the covers. No one needs to see this, especially him. 2) I never am agressive about finishing if he finishes first. Its disappointing sometimes, but I feel like he already had enough of my fat ass on him.

I don't want to be mopey mirtle, but I dont see anything sexy at all when I look in that mirror. And I don't know if I ever will unless I get this weight off.

Its beautiful to hear some many bigger women be so confident sexually. I really take my hat off to you all and your all so beautiful. I only wish I could gleam a portion of it from you.

What an awesome bog post! Excellent and very true...

2009-08-07T21:45:12.737-05:00

What an awesome bog post! Excellent and very true. I'm fortunate to have husband who loves me as I am, as amazing as that was to me.

browsing SITS blogs and happened on yours...excellent blog.

stop by and say Hi!

I had some free time today and was playing catch u...

2009-07-27T13:27:11.145-05:00

I had some free time today and was playing catch up on my favorite blogs. This is an awesome post! I too had to learn the hard way (and after much reassuring from my husband) that he loves my body just the way it is. He despises the granny panties I used to wear years ago and begged me to wear "sexy" panties like thongs, etc...once I FINALLY broke down and started wearing them for HIM and saw how much he really did like them it helped boost my self-confidence. I love dressing sexy for him now no matter what size I am...because he likes it and it makes him happy. :-)

Great advice! I'm not overweight and I still worry...

2009-07-25T11:32:04.795-05:00

Great advice! I'm not overweight and I still worry about all the things you mentioned. A recent BF was incredibly fit - we're talking body fat % less than 5!! - and while I loved being with his gorgeous body, I was so insecure... at first. Then he told me how hot he thought I was. I chose to believe him.
Loved this post! Going to check out your others:)
Happy SITS Sharefest Saturday ;)
Check me out if you have time: http://www.hotpieceofsass.com/2009/06/keeping-casual-sex-casual.html

Awesome advice! All stuff so many of us had to le...

2009-07-25T07:09:56.902-05:00

Awesome advice! All stuff so many of us had to learn on their own because who talks about this?? (Esp if you started having sex before the internet - gasp, old! lol)

Happy SITS Saturday Sharefest!!

excellent post! sharing some SITStas love and Hap...

2009-07-19T09:11:06.297-05:00

excellent post! sharing some SITStas love and Happy Saturday Sharefest

This was hysterical and spot on. I'm a big with a ...

2009-07-19T09:01:42.396-05:00

This was hysterical and spot on. I'm a big with a husband that prefers big girls and I had to learn a lot of the same things you did. :::visiting from SITS for the ShareFest:::

@QueenBee...I was sooo hoping you would reply beca...

2009-07-15T10:56:43.763-05:00

@QueenBee...I was sooo hoping you would reply because LaVender told me you are one of those lovely bigger women who doesn't have negative body issues.

Thank you so much for sharing! I totally agree with you and wish I would have learned to love myself a lot sooner. :-)

Hugs ~ Sandy

@Momentsinaneye, thank you for stopping by.

2009-07-15T10:54:42.010-05:00

@Momentsinaneye, thank you for stopping by.

Ok, I'm a big booty, big breast, big hip type of g...

2009-07-15T10:40:49.981-05:00

Ok, I'm a big booty, big breast, big hip type of girl and girlfriend, I tell ya, it must of been something about this flab that made hubby interested in the first place.

It wasn't like he didn't know what he was getting in to. I let the jiggles jiggle and the flab flubber. I love me and I think that's one of the first things that a plus size girl or anybody for that matter should do is to love self first; because if you don't, then nobody else will. I work it and make it do what it do.

Hi, Great advice for everyone.I will check back of...

2009-07-15T09:29:28.759-05:00

Hi, Great advice for everyone.I will check back often.